Sunday, September 23, 2007

Looking High

From Seko:

Sean met and married the woman of his dreams. Upright, passionate, determined, and African. I'm sure it's hard to tell who is from a Nigerian family, and who is from a predominately European culture by the photo. Sean has had a 'thing' for women from the Mother continent for a minute. He looked at me at the reception and said "Man, I got everything I asked God for; She's upright, passionate, determined, and African. God is good Cuz'n, God is good." Sean's nuclear family wasn't able to make it to the wedding. Sean talked about his family frequently stating that he was basically was the father-figure for four of his siblings. He shared with me that he felt like a peice of him remained in the states. Our aunt (his Mum) suddenly wasn't able to obtain her passport (she lives in Washington D.C.) and none of his nine siblings were able to attend. Although we were all notified of the event a year ago, London is a bit of a distance from the U.S.......... However, I think this wedding has shown me that it's truly not the distance to your goal, but how one views hills. Sean has always been able to see a hill and say "I'm sure it's worth the climb." Growing up in a large family in the soulful comfort of Urban life, Sean always wanted more. He long ago removed the "hood" from covering his head and allowed the rain to wash his head. Sean took a chance. He moved to another country and wasn't able to work for 6 months as England wouldn't allow him to work legally until after marriage and 6 months of residency. Marrying a Britt isn't easy. Sean left with only a suitcase as his belongings. As we prayed during the ceremony, and at the reception, the small contingency from the U.S. prayed for Sean's family, our family. Sean's far from perfect...yet......he has learned how to look high. May his life be a beacon and a bright-tower to encourage his family, our family, your family......... to look high. Quick, tell ya' partner "look higher".

4 comments:

Unknown said...

man
wish i could have been there.
do you have his addy..?

Anonymous said...

*pouring a libation after that blessing*

Unknown said...

The pictures where beautiful. What gives you the right to bad mouth my mother and me on your blog. You know one side of the story and every story has 3 sides being his, hers and the truth. I would appreciate you not making an ASS out yourself by assuming that my mother I didn't try to make it to his wedding. You know nothing of us because you don't converse with us. So before you go calling us HOOD and making outlandish statements about what our goals and ambitions it would serve you well to have a conversation or two with us. Try getting to know the folks your running your mouth about so that when you speak you know what your talking about and not speaking out of the side of your head.

Anonymous said...

Nice commentary cuz. I wish them the best in their future!!
Peace and Blessings